The Case Against Being Trapped By The Law
“If you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right.”
An extremely bright and accomplished woman attorney recently explained to me why it was impossible for her to do anything but practice law at this point in her life. Having worked in both government and private settings, she was certain she had a clear idea of what her chosen profession entailed and had concluded that no area of the law would hold her interest. She had a very clear sense of personal priorities and knew she wanted family to come before work. She did not apologize for her unwillingness to work a 60-80 hour week. But her remaining law school debt loomed largely before her. And furthermore, she just couldn’t imagine not being a lawyer - not after having invested so much time, money and hard work in her field. Essentially, she believed she was trapped - that she had no options except to continue doing the work she was trained to do and to remain forever dissatisfied.
In my experience, this is a fate to which many lawyers believe they are doomed. But the fact is that dissatisfied attorneys can find rewarding work both within and outside of the legal world. I’ve worked with lawyers who are now teachers, writers, marketing executives, entrepreneurs, lobbyists, private investigators, legal career counselors, mediators, and psychologists, to name only a few. I’ve also seen attorneys transform their lives by changing practice areas, moving from a large to a small firm, transitioning into academics, and choosing alternative work arrangements. But before you can make a change, you have to believe that you can.
Here are some of the common myths that keep lawyers feeling trapped in their jobs - myths that need to be debunked. I will review each of the myths underlying this attorney’s arguments and offer what I believe is a more realistic appraisal of the situation.
1. MYTH: It is irrational and wasteful to choose not to practice law after completing a legal education.
2. MYTH: Your work experience gives you a thorough and realistic picture of the universe of legal practice.
3. MYTH: There is no other way to produce sufficient income to pay down law school debt besides continuing to work as a lawyer.
4. MYTH: You’ll need another degree to find a job outside of legal practice.
The key to finding career satisfaction either within, or outside of, the law is to: — do a thorough self- assessment of your interests, talents, values and passions — carefully and thoroughly research all the possible options available to you - including many possibilities you’ve never before considered - conduct extensive informational interviews to ensure that the work you’re considering fits with your life, not just your interests — make a long-term, step-by-step plan which includes strategies for addressing financial needs.
Many attorneys find it easier to accomplish the above steps and ultimately reach their new career objectives by establishing an ongoing relationship with a professional coach. Coaching is convenient - since it’s conducted via telephone (with email and fax backup) you don’t need to add travel time to your busy schedule. And the structured, task-focused nature of coaching can allow you to accomplish your objectives more efficiently.