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April 11, 2013

Ellen Ostrow, a D.C.-based psychologist who coaches female lawyers, many at the most senior levels, said female leaders often fall into two camps.  "I see senior women who absolutely take the stance: 'I had to sacrifice, so don't come whining to me about wanting flexibility.'" she said.  "I also see plenty of senior women who say: 'I don't want anyone to go through what I went through.  I'm glad to be here in a positiion of power to make it easier for a young woman.'"